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Building Your Vision, Creating Your Life

BUILDING YOUR VISION, CREATING YOUR LIFE

Gaining a clear understanding of what matters most to you—along with recognising the gaps between your current life and your ideal vision—is the essential first step toward meaningful change. When you see what’s happening across different areas of your life, you can begin to take intentional action:

  • Individuals can take ownership of their life engagement and well-being.
  • Coaches can guide clients toward clarity and purposeful growth.

It’s natural to search for the “perfect life” or the “ideal situation.” We often change routines, habits, or goals believing the next step will bring fulfilment. Yet, even then, something might feel missing. More often than not, it’s not the external circumstances themselves but our awareness of what we truly need and how we relate to those needs.

Someone seeking to understand their priorities, engagement, and personal growth.
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FOR INDIVIDUALS

Understanding where you are right now provides a valuable starting point for reflection and action. Use your self-reflection results to visualise what matters most and identify where you want to grow or change.


Compare your reflections with your current life reality to identify gaps between your vision and experience. Use these insights to guide conversations with coaches, mentors, or trusted supporters.


Ask yourself:


“What can I do to achieve the level that I can to have in this area?”
“Who can I reach out to for support or guidance?”


And remember: the perfect life doesn’t exist. Meaningful living comes from openness, honest reflection, and engaging in purposeful actions. When you align your growth with your values and community, you don’t just exist—you thrive.

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FOR COACHES AND MENTORS

Understanding how clients relate to their life engagement offers a powerful perspective to support their personal development. This tool reveals what energises them, what holds them back, and where alignment or disconnection exists between their values and current life circumstances.
Use your client’s self-reflection results to visualise what matters most and identify gaps limiting their fulfilment or growth.


Ask coaching-focused questions such as:


“Which areas feel most aligned or misaligned with your vision for life?”
“What would greater fulfilment in this area look and feel like?”
“What support or changes do you need to move forward?”


Guide clients toward action-oriented reflection and decision-making. Help them identify what’s within their control, what conversations they might need to have, and what internal shifts can unlock new possibilities.


Ask coaching-focused questions such as:


“Looking at the gaps between your vision and current life, which area feels most important—and most within your control—to start acting on?”
“What conversation could you initiate that might shift how you experience this part of your life?”

And remember: meaningful engagement is not about chasing an ideal life but aligning actions, mindset, and communication with what truly matters. As a coach, you play a vital role in helping clients transform insight into empowered movement toward a life that feels fulfilling and authentic.

For ideas on actions or conversation starters, refer to the accompanying guidance table. These are invitations to self-reflection, not fixed answers—let them inspire your personal strategy. The more honest and open your reflection, the more likely you are to discover what you truly need.


Someone seeking to understand their priorities, engagement, and personal growth.
Individual
Your professional path and the sense of fulfilment, purpose, and growth you experience through the work you do.
Career & Vocation		Identify skills you’d like to strengthen and seek relevant training. Set short- and long-term career goals. Network with colleagues or mentors for guidance and inspiration. Seek feedback to improve and grow in your current role.
Your involvement in and contribution to communities, causes, or groups that extend beyond yourself, creating a sense of impact and belonging.
Community & Contribution		Volunteer for a cause that resonates with your values. Support local initiatives or charities. Join a community group or association. Contribute knowledge or skills through mentoring or teaching.
The freedom to explore, express, and develop your creativity through art, innovation, or personal projects.
Creativity & Expression		Dedicate time weekly to creative hobbies (art, music, writing). Experiment with new forms of expression, even if small. Share your work or ideas with others for feedback. Explore cultural activities (museums, performances, workshops).
The physical and emotional quality of the spaces where you live, work, and spend time, including safety, comfort, and inspiration.
Environment & Surroundings		Declutter or reorganise your living space for comfort. Add natural elements (plants, light, fresh air) to your environment. Explore working or relaxing in spaces that inspire you. Reduce exposure to negative or stressful environments.
The quality of your bonds with family members, including love, trust, and mutual support.
Family & Relationships		Schedule quality time with family members. Express appreciation and gratitude openly. Resolve unresolved conflicts through calm communication. Create family rituals (shared meals, traditions, celebrations).
The ability to meet your basic needs and desired lifestyle through secure and sustainable financial resources.
Financial Stability		Review and track your income, expenses, and savings. Create a realistic budget aligned with your priorities. Build an emergency fund step by step. Seek advice or education on financial planning.
The connections and companionship you share with friends, peers, and social groups that bring joy, support, and belonging.
Friendships & Social Life		Reach out to friends you haven’t connected with in a while. Plan regular catch-ups or activities together. Be intentional about nurturing meaningful friendships. Join clubs, groups, or classes to meet new people.
The time and space you dedicate to enjoyment, hobbies, play, and relaxation.
Fun & Leisure		Schedule downtime or playful activities into your week. Try new hobbies or revisit old ones you enjoyed. Allow space for unstructured, spontaneous fun. Plan a trip, day out, or simple change of routine.
Your physical, mental, and emotional health, including how well you care for and sustain your overall vitality.
Health & Wellbeing		Prioritise regular physical activity that you enjoy. Focus on balanced nutrition and hydration. Build routines for quality sleep and rest. Seek support for emotional or mental health when needed.
The opportunities you pursue for self-development, knowledge, and skill-building throughout life.
Learning & Growth		Enrol in a course or workshop to expand skills. Read books or listen to podcasts on topics that inspire you. Set learning goals and track your progress. Challenge yourself with new experiences that push comfort zones.
Your sense of direction, goals, and the deeper meaning you attach to your choices and experiences.
Life Vision & Purpose		Reflect on your values and align goals with them. Write down a vision statement for your life. Set milestones that reflect your deeper purpose. Explore activities that bring passion and meaning.
The closeness, affection, and meaningful connection you share with a partner or loved one.
Love & Intimacy		Spend quality, focused time with your partner. Communicate needs, feelings, and appreciation openly. Work together on shared goals or experiences. Create rituals of intimacy (e.g., date nights, shared hobbies).
Living in alignment with your principles, ethics, and authenticity, and making choices that reflect who you truly are.
Personal Values & Integrity		Reflect regularly on whether your actions align with your values. Set boundaries to protect your integrity. Say “no” when something doesn’t align with your principles. Surround yourself with people who respect your authenticity.
Your sense of connection to something larger than yourself, which may be expressed through faith, philosophy, nature, or inner reflection.
Spirituality & Connection		Practice mindfulness, meditation, or prayer. Spend time in nature to feel connected. Explore spiritual texts, teachings, or communities. Journal about your reflections and beliefs.
The ability to manage professional responsibilities alongside personal interests, relationships, and self-care, creating harmony between work and life.
Work-Life Balance		Set clear boundaries between work and personal time. Learn to delegate or say no when overloaded. Schedule time for rest, hobbies, and family. Use breaks to recharge during your workday.
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